##So hard##

To get a job is such a hard thing but when the opportunity is there, to please someone heart is the hard thing. Now i know why, most of the graduates can’t get themselves a job. The first thing is because of their initiative to get a work. Then is their high expectation of salary and then will be the comment given by the people around them. Sometime, when u stay without work for so long time and use everything at home, feeling is like "USELESS, I need to get a work as soon as possible." However, there will be people talking at your ears telling u that, u shouldn’t agree so soon, so get to more interviews etc. Before you being offered a job, people will ask, how come u still have not get a job since your friends are all working? Isit the salary you expected is too high? shouldn’t put so high since you are a fresh graduate. But when the expected salary is given then there will be comments saying, "you should ask more since you are a graduate. As i know although as a fresh grad you should get more than this." What to do? To please everyone is such a hard thing.

People say, is hard to maintain a relationship. It is not only with your boyfriend or girlfriend, but I think, it includes family menbers. Quarrels happen all the time. When quarrel happen between u, u dunno how to response. When you think one of the party u always help is wrong, you dunno how to help as that party is someone you respect also. When people are argueing and u help in that arguement, you are consider as "Kepoh" and petty people will start to angry with you. A family should be warm enough for everyone to stay together and have fun of staying together but where is the feeling?

Few years ago, there is someone told me that, she don’t like to be with her family and so she choose to go to study at a place far from her home asap. After going so far, she recognise her warm family everytime she came back to her hometown. So, after four years of study, she decided not to leave too far from her hometown for a job. Suddenly,  at this night she got the feeling of leaving her home again. She feels that, there is no lively feeling to stay at home. Everyone was pulling a long face and didn’t talk to each other. Everyone is doing their own thing. No one will appreciate you for doing things for them but only people will start to pull a long long face when things are not done. It is HARD to live in a place like this.

Maybe some people will think that there are alot of other hard thing in live but I think this is something hard. There are lacking of something. Cherish your family and friends!!!